How Finding A Pathway To Patience Gave Him Hope

This article demonstrates how talking about what is not working can provide insights, give you hope and in Bob’s case provide a pathway to patience. Let me start by telling you a little about what was happening when I met Bob networking. He was frustrated and very critical of himself and despite having made a […]
Ignoring The Warning Signs

I had been wiggling and jiggling it for several months, ignoring the the fact that I needed to make the decision to replace it. It was like I was hoping it would miraculously fix itself. In this update, I want to invite you to consider what decisions you are putting off and what the impact […]
Now I Can Confidently Say No

Belinda talks about her story. “When I first became self employed I worked every hour I could, I took every single opportunity and forced myself to do more, even when my body was telling me to rest! I didn’t know how to say no without feeling guilty. I put myself and my needs at the […]
How is social media impacting your decision making?

Is your screen time up or down this week? No doubt, like me, you get a notification on your phone to let you know. (Even if you choose to sometimes ignore it) It is said we spend on average 2.5 hours a day just on social media, and that is before you factor in the […]
8 Kinds Of Listening

Eight kinds of listening Those that have read Manage Your Critic – From Overwhelm to Clarity in 7 steps you may remember that I talked about 7 kinds of listening. I was referring to the kinds of listening I had identified my clients had needed. When I continued to develop this concept of different kinds […]
What is Clean Language?

Clean Language is a questioning technique designed by David Grove in the 1980’s, who gave it a way on a generosity framework. As a psychotherapist he recognised when looking at many transcribes that the way a question was constructed influenced the ability of any given patient to answer. The ability to answer then influenced the […]